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Be With Someone Who Giggle For You

Be with someone who make time for you. Someone you don't have to beg for their time. Be with someone who always can be contacted, whenever you need them without having to hear "I'm too busy" or "Awe, not this thing again". Some says that if we really mean that much for someone, they'll make time. They'll come through. They'll answer every phone call and reply your text back without making you have to wait or purposely make you wait. Someone who make time for you will put your needs above others, even theirs. It's the matter of priorities and you, will always be on their first.

Be with someone who always calls you beautiful. Not because they are flirty, or they want something from you. Let alone they are hiding something shifty from you. But because you deserve it and you do look beautiful everyday. Be with someone who compliments your long hair, your short hair, your dark skin, your white pale skin, your face that is full of acnes, your wrinkly face. Your morning hair. Your tired face. Your sleeping face. And he still call you beautiful and see you like you are the only girl in the world. Be with someone who appreciate you inside and out, because when your outside appearance is failing, he'll still calls you beautiful and sees you like you are the only girl matter in the world. 

Be with someone who never hit you. Because you know, when he has the guts to hit you, he's no longer worth your time. Not only hit, if he already cuss you with curse words and telling you shit in front of other people and yelling at you abruptly, and playing victim to you, please, leave him. Someone who loves you would never hit you or saying mean things to you. Even he couldn't stand hearing you saying mean things to yourself. If he already lay his hand on your--other than to hug or to hold you when you cry--leave them and never look back.

Be with someone who always says "I love you" even though you two are fighting. Sometimes when we fight, we probably think that our partner will loves us less because they are seeing our ugly side. The side that make previous lover give up and gone. The side that we thought 'this is the reason why people always leave'. But he doesn't leave. He still there. Even though you two were fighting and screaming to the top of your lungs, he still say "I love you" at the end of it, whether you two already made up or no. Because he told you that it is important to let our partner knows that they are still loved, no matter what and the fight doesn't make the love fade or being less. That after the storm will always come a rainbow. 

Be with someone who encourage you to do things. Not forbid you to do things because of 'dangerous' or 'it doesn't suit you'. He knows you are an adult, a grown person who knows her limit. He only gonna remind you about the consequences, about the side effects, and be beside you when you do the things you always want to do. He will always be on the back, pushing you towards your dreams and be in the front, whenever you need to be pulled out from everything doubting you. He will be the one person who claps the loudest when you finally be recognized because of what you do. He will be the one person who held you and console you when you feel like failing and everything not going like the way you planned. He believes in you, and always will be no matter what. 

Be with someone who giggles with you and for you. If you happen to know a man who's a man's man and never giggle before, but giggle with you, be with him. He sure have a lot of pride to be a man. You'll never hear his outburst laughter, or his cute giggle other when he hears your funny story about your workmate unfortunate series or when you do something that he considered cute but not for you. You damn sure know that he never giggle like that in front of his friend, let alone a girl. He show his vulnerable side to you, knowing that your feelings will not change and you will always love him. 

and his giggle. 



Love, 
Mrs. Words
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