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Girls, Here's The Life List You Have To Do, At Least Once

Everyday in our life we made a to-do list so we won't miss what we should do today. Either it's a meeting, or appointment or simply getting someone a birthday present. They say if we are an organized person, we are usually make a list to guide us through the day perfectly--like how we want it to be. A list makes us sure that we do everything we have to do.

I'm not gonna make a common to-do list. Pffft, your needs may be different than my needs. But at least there are some things that we need to do in our life. At least once. Here is the list:

1. Wake up early than the time you usually wake. This will give you the chance to prepare yourself better, you can even exercise before you go.

2. Take a different route to go to work or school. The usual route is good, but different route might be better. Maybe you can find a route that has less traffic or has a good breakfast spot?

3. Eat healthy. Not that Instagram-style healthy, but healthy as in maybe you can try less sugar, or not eating too much snacks, or eating with the suitable portion at the right time.

4. Treat yourself sometimes. Only sometimes, not always.

5. Have a good sleep. No K-drama or tv shows or any social media timelines worth your sleeping time. Have enough sleep not only good for your body, but good for your eyes too so you'll look fresh.

6. Clean your social media following. Really, if they make you feel bad about yourself just push that unfollow button.

7. Say 'you're beautiful' to a girl genuinely without a hint of sarcasm and a pinch of want-to-get-compliment-back.

8. Moisturize your body everyday with body lotion, body butter, etc. Your skin will thank you when you're old.

9. Have at least one day stay-cation somewhere in a nice, cute hotel. Spend time for yourself and on yourself only.

10. Wear that damn flowery ruffle skirt with stripes if you want to even though it would look contradictory one another. Kendall Jenner can wore a very ugly pants and the fashion people still call it genius and fashion forward. Why can't you? Lol

11. Pet at least dog or cat once a day. It feels comforting lmao.

12. No matter what your skin tone are, try that candy-colored hair on you. Then wear it with pride!

13. Spend less time on your phone. Focus on other thing. Other people.

14. Be confident and true about who you are, what you want to be, where you want to build your life and what you want to do. And always remember that when you lost your way or lose hope.

15. Watch a comedy romantic drama about friendship. With your girl squad. In a pyjama.

16. Go at least once to a music concert. Especially Korean music concert. Man they have a good setting on the stage.

17. Have the bravery to yell at people who stays in the right lane when the right lane is for walking. Told people when they wrecking your vibe. Or making your life harder while making their easier.

18. Compliment your friends, your spouse, your husband, your boyfriend, your girlfriend. Let them know that they are loved and they sure look good or do good.

19. Eat in an All You Can Eat restaurant with your date and see if he still ask you out after that. If yes, it is true love.

20. Let your boyfriend or girlfriend pick a movie for date night.

21. For once, take an impromptu trip somewhere else. Somewhere you always wanted.

22. Visit a museum and try not to take any picture there. Just focus on the art and installation there and appreciate the artist who might be happen to be there.

23. Try that high slide at the pool. Don't just wondering how would it feels like every time you see it.

24. Buy a good pair of shoes. Not just cheap shoes. Invest a good pair of shoes that fit for formal occasions and casual occasions.

25. Learn everything. If you want to roll into the dancing class or even pottery class, by God just sign up!

26. Don't waste your time with people who aren't worthy of your time. That boy who never text you back, the friend who only call you when they need something, or the people from the bank offering you credit card.

27. Find a boyfriend who always encourage you to try new things, pick your sides, never make you doubt of him and always says your beautiful even you are wearing an ugly christmas sweater.

28. Learn how to drive. Really girls, learn it. Motorcycle, bike, car, anything!

29. It's always better to a little bit overdressed than underdressed. You wouldn't want to wear dirty shoes to a black tie event aren't you?

30. Spend time with your parents, at least once a week. They want to catch-up about your life and what you have been through. Give them some insight. Don't shut them out.

32. Visit a local zoo or theme park for once. Well, i don't have particular reason but it might be fun.

33. Find a boyfriend when you are ready to have a relationship, not when you feel lonely and empty.

34. After you find a boyfriend, find a balanced life between your personal time, your time with boyfriend and your time with your friends.

35. Do whatever you want to do that makes you happy until you can do what you want to do.

And oh,

Don't give a fuck about it. But stay responsible.

Love,
Mrs. Words

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