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It's Your Love, Who Make Him Look Perfect

Here's the thing about the guy you will marry.

You always wishes for the perfect husband. The right guy. The "it" guy. The guy that fit to everyone's description about 'what's a perfect husband look like'. Well, most of you don't know that, there's no thing as the perfect guy to marry. Lol why? 

You know, the guy you will marry may not be the most handsome of all. He may not be the most funny, the smartest or the sexiest man alive like Blake. But to you, he's gonna be the most sexiest, the funniest, the smartest and the most handsome of all guy you ever know because the love you have for him gonna make you change all of your description of an 'it' guy, to meet his description. 

Suddenly, you find that his awful lame, dad jokes is funny and the way he ate ice cream is sexy, and his smiling face is addicted because it's him who doing it. 

Also, the guy you will marry will always makes you feel at home because you always know he can take care of you without making you feel like little kid. He will always put you first above his needs, because you are important to him and he feel that he can worry about himself later. If you fight with him and he walks out of the house in anger, know that he's just walking around a block and come back home and apologize. Also, he'll say i love you. He knows that it took two to tango, and in every fights two people are responsible. 

He might not make a lot kind of money. He might not doing the most luxurious or the most famous job in the world. But you rather have him home with you at a reasonable hour rather than working weekends, or until the graveyard shift and make you wait on the dinner table until the food gone cold because he's not there to eat it. The guy you will marry will always fit work to your schedule, and always make time for you even for a lunch phone call because he wants to let you know he is okay and thank you for the lunch you made for him. 

By the way, I'm writing this as i listen to Iron and Wine's Flightless Bird. Yes, i am that mellow. 

The man you will marry is your teammate. Your player one. Your bestfriend. The one who will always got your back even though he knows you are wrong and he'll tell you later in private. He's your most favorite friend who knows all your shit and still thinks you're awesome. He who sees you in the most stylish outfit, and sees you in your ripped shirt and old underwear, and say you look beautiful in both outfit. He who will always try to make amends, to work everything's out when things doesn't seem to go right. 

He's the reason why everything not work out. Why everyone have to fail. Why you have to go through everything you've been through. You thought you know what love is, you thought you know how you deserve to be treated, until he comes along. He will make you change your standards, break down your walls, listen more, talk more, be honest, try more, because you want everything to work out and he'll be the first one who makes you want to go the distance. 

It's not him who is perfect. It's your love, who makes him perfect. 



Love, 
Mrs. Words
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