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Here's The Thing About Our Love Stories

As someone who drawn into the world of Instagram, i have those couples that i love to see. I even followed both of their Instagram to see what is the girl said about him, what is the boy said about her, what are the captions, what thing do they post that makes me sometimes feel jealous and screams internally to God (which i know He would hear it anyway) about why they have to be so adorable and so on point.

Their relationship is everything. Everyone want to be like them. Everyone worship them to the ground they walk on. No one forget to leave a cute comment sayings about how that is a relationship goals and how the relationship should be like that, following with the wishes for the couple to be marry or anything and roots for them to be together until they die.

Other people's love story might be beautiful.

They might be wonderful, teary-eyed and the one you kinda wish it happen in your life. Some of them even dramatic, some of them are unbelievably sweet. They might pose beautifully, like laughing to each other. Their captions might be beautiful and cute and show them how much they love their partners. Every time they post something together it makes you believe that real love do exist and it's on them.

Other people's love story may make it to another Instagram account about love. They might be the one who everyone called "relationship goals", they made it into several article about "the kind of relationship goals we ever wanted in our life". The kind of love story that will make you regrets your choice in men. The kind of story that is too good to be true about unexpected meet somewhere in another country or place and when his eyes and your eyes meet, you feel the 'zing' (Hotel Transylvania reference, watch it guys it's really funny).

Our love story might be messy, but it's real. We feel it. We lived it. We do it everyday, without filter or captions.

They could be too busy showcasing their love to the world, until they forget it's the partner to whom they should be showing their love to.

Our love story never care about likes or content for the Instagram, we only care about how we make each other happy everyday.

Our love story never have to smile on cue. We laugh and giggle like a school girl and school boy, with our inside jokes that maybe people don't find it funny but that's the main point.
Nobody have to get our inside joke. Nobody have to understand our love story. Our love story don't neglect our partner after taking pictures and busy choosing and editing pictures. Our love story never care about matching couple clothes, or date in a fancy places or even big surprises every anniversary. Our love stories is the little note we left to each other at unexpected places, hoping that when he read it, he'll feel the love and the energy.

Our love stories is about listening to a mixtape that we made for him, because we lost words to explain how in love we are with him until we have to borrow other people's words to explain how much he means to us.

Our love story is not the makeup that they wear to cover the bruise on the face. Our love story is not about how they still be together just to feed the public, not because they want to be together. Our love story is not about the 1000 long stem of roses that he send after we ask thousand times.

Our love story is about how he always remember our favourite food, our little things, how we like our eggs for breakfast and even how hot the tea you want in the evening.

Other people's love story might be beautiful. Might be dramatic. But it's not ours to begin with. Our love story is messy. Tangled. But it's all true and real. Not some mandatory pictures to make us look like we have deep feelings for each other. All of our feelings are real. Not the one we build for likes.

Our love story is not making us feel anxious and thinking that he doesn't love us when he doesn't upload a picture of us.

Our love story makes us happy to wake in the morning, because the thought of meeting him and all the time we will spend knowing each other better. Our love story is real. And messy. But it's something we enjoy just with the two of us.

Because the one we should let know about our feeling first is him, not your audience.

Also, three's a crowd :p


Love,
Mrs. Words
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