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This Is What Happen When You Say "I'm Ready"


How many times do you say ‘I’m ready’ in your life?

Countless. You said it in a casual occasion—either it in class, or when your friends come to pick you up and asking if you already ready to go. Or when you get picked up by your uber and the driver asks you “are you ready to go?”, or when we are gonna starting something.

But you know, it doesn’t always about starting something new. It can be about starting something that you always want to do but you never have the chance to do it.

It’s not about one day again—once you said ‘I’m ready’, it will be day one.

It will be how much effort do you put on that until you succeeded doing what you always want to do. It’ll be the kind of words that you always regret when you are older, wondering what could hold you from doing what you want to do.

It’s just a simple two-words sentence, but it has a greater meaning in our life. It can takes us places. If you are not ready, you can never move because you always feel that something isn’t finished yet. You can never move because you don’t want to leave the comfort, and the familiarity on it. We always be in that ‘what-if’ situation, weighing all the certainty and uncertainty, all the pros and cons, that hold us to say ‘I’m ready’.

Saying that ‘I’m ready’ also means that we are ready for a change, no matter how little it is. 

We are no longer let people do whatever they want to us. We allow ourselves to change and to grow into a better person—in a perfect condition and surroundings like we always want to. We allow ourselves to move into a better place, to take trips and chances that lead us to something we deserve. This also means we are ready to leave the familiar feeling, the comfort zones, and make our way up to the battle station. We no longer let our doubts control our thoughts and action because we are ready to face the unknown, despite we are scared of it and don’t know what to do about it.

When you are ready about all things—including love—things will happen to you. Sometimes nice, sometimes bad, and sometimes in between a bit of both. But it’s okay because you know you can handle it. Saying that you are ready, also means that you know you can do more—and you are willing to do more. You realize that you have this big potential in yourself that no one else realize but you, and it feels powerful.

It makes you feel you have control over yourself, and it feels liberating.

 It can take you places you never go. It can make you do unimaginable things you only can think of before. You are no longer tied with your doubts. You no longer gives fuck. You finally willing to do what you always want to do.

So, are you ready?



Love,
Mrs. Words 

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