Mrs. Words

Here's the thing about the guy you will marry. You always wishes for the perfect husband. The right guy. The "it" guy. The guy that fit to everyone's description about 'what's a perfect husband look like'. Well, most of you don't know that, there's no thing as the perfect guy to marry. Lol why?  You know, the guy you will marry may not be the most handsome of all. He may not be the most funny, the smartest or the sexiest man alive like Blake. But to you, he's gonna be the most sexiest, the funniest, the smartest and the most handsome of all guy you ever know because the love you have for him gonna make you change all of your description of an 'it' guy, to meet his description.  Suddenly, you find that his awful lame, dad jokes is funny and the way he ate ice cream is sexy, and his smiling face is addicted because it's him who doing it.  Also, the guy you will marry will always makes you feel at home because you alway...

As someone who drawn into the world of Instagram, i have those couples that i love to see. I even followed both of their Instagram to see what is the girl said about him, what is the boy said about her, what are the captions, what thing do they post that makes me sometimes feel jealous and screams internally to God (which i know He would hear it anyway) about why they have to be so adorable and so on point. Their relationship is everything. Everyone want to be like them. Everyone worship them to the ground they walk on. No one forget to leave a cute comment sayings about how that is a relationship goals and how the relationship should be like that, following with the wishes for the couple to be marry or anything and roots for them to be together until they die. Other people's love story might be beautiful. They might be wonderful, teary-eyed and the one you kinda wish it happen in your life. Some of them even dramatic, some of them are unbelievably sweet. They might po...

Be with someone who make time for you.  Someone you don't have to beg for their time. Be with someone who always can be contacted, whenever you need them without having to hear "I'm too busy" or "Awe, not this thing again". Some says that if we really mean that much for someone, they'll make time. They'll come through. They'll answer every phone call and reply your text back without making you have to wait or purposely make you wait. Someone who make time for you will put your needs above others, even theirs. It's the matter of priorities and you, will always be on their first. Be with someone who always calls you beautiful . Not because they are flirty, or they want something from you. Let alone they are hiding something shifty from you. But because you deserve it and you do look beautiful everyday. Be with someone who compliments your long hair, your short hair, your dark skin, your white pale skin, your face that is full of acnes, your...

Everyday in our life we made a to-do list so we won't miss what we should do today. Either it's a meeting, or appointment or simply getting someone a birthday present. They say if we are an organized person, we are usually make a list to guide us through the day perfectly--like how we want it to be. A list makes us sure that we do everything we have to do. I'm not gonna make a common to-do list. Pffft, your needs may be different than my needs. But at least there are some things that we need to do in our life. At least once. Here is the list: 1. Wake up early than the time you usually wake . This will give you the chance to prepare yourself better, you can even exercise before you go. 2. Take a different route to go to work or school. The usual route is good, but different route might be better. Maybe you can find a route that has less traffic or has a good breakfast spot? 3. Eat healthy . Not that Instagram-style healthy, but healthy as in maybe you can try less sugar...

How many times do you say ‘I’m ready’ in your life? Countless. You said it in a casual occasion—either it in class, or when your friends come to pick you up and asking if you already ready to go. Or when you get picked up by your uber and the driver asks you “are you ready to go?”, or when we are gonna starting something. But you know, it doesn’t always about starting something new. It can be about starting something that you always want to do but you never have the chance to do it. It’s not about one day again—once you said ‘I’m ready’, it will be day one. It will be how much effort do you put on that until you succeeded doing what you always want to do. It’ll be the kind of words that you always regret when you are older, wondering what could hold you from doing what you want to do. It’s just a simple two-words sentence, but it has a greater meaning in our life. It can takes us places. If you are not ready, you can never move because you always feel that something isn’...

Wow, it's been a long time since i write on blogs . Biasanya ngetiknya kalo nggak di caption  Instagram, di Instagram post nya Mrs. Words ( yes, i have an Instagram account filled with poems, check @mrswords!). Aku mutusin buat bikin blog lagi karena lupa password blog yang lama, dan isi blog yang lama itu udah nggak relevan banget sama apa yang aku tulis sekarang, jadi aku bikin blog baru dan semoga isinya bisa seenggaknya ngasi pencerahan atau bikin kita semua ngeliat berbagai hal dari sisi yang berbeda ya. I am currently living my dreams. Aku kerja sebagai jurnalis dan ngeliput banyak banget hal yang nyenengin kayak konser, fashion show, premier film, dan bahkan nyobain makanan yang belum pernah dicobain sebelumnya. Aku pergi jalan-jalan ke Jogja, Surabaya dan Bandung. Aku nulis untuk dibayar, sesuatu yang udah lama banget jadi impianku: nulis dan dapet bayaran hahaha. Shallow  banget nggak sih? Hahahaha YOLO! Udah lama banget nggak nulis buat diri sendiri karena biasan...